I am so sorry to hear this. I am wondering if maybe you and your brother have an aunt or grandma that can take you in for a while? Someone that you like? Maybe that will get you away from feeling ignored and from what I see as emotional abuse. It may help just to leave them each a nice note saying JUST that you miss them and ask for a day to all watch a dvd together or something like that, this way you are just asking for time with them and saying your missing them BUT not saying why. It's more like an I statement