Some things just can't be said with out being blunt. Thats o.k. Oral sex is not my favorite to give. But to receive is nice. My H doesn't stop me if I say hay give me a sec in the bathroom to clean up. No one in there right mind would say no way, dirty please. I've often told my H no thanks it's not so clean. Sometimes he doesn't care and I wash up before hand.

Guys have an aroma to. Not one I like but with a little soap things are tolerable. If I want to receive then I should be open to give. My H knows I do not like giving (past rape) so he seldom asks but never declines if I offer.