yes. you are right. she has already told me that my fear of connection is important. she wrote me this:


"Your experience of wanting and not wanting and all the resistance around that IS the important business we need to attend to. It's more important than talking about stuff...it's the thing that will grow new neurons that will eventually make you feel more comfortable in the world and in your own skin. So, really, I'm glad that you're feeling it and can describe it."