Well yes and no. I do agree with you and understand why you feel how you do, having been silenced for so long. I am sorry you were. I do however see room to make my point and not be censored nor say xy or z in a way that may hurt someone's feeling. No, you cannot avoid all hurt feelings but you said above you have run into this often the last couple or few weeks and that made me wonder if maybe it was the wording. Like I said I could be wrong but if you keep encountering this kind of thing , then maybe it is the way you use a word or two. That's all I mean. I myself can word things strongly in person.