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Originally Posted by stormyangels
Even in "humor" the behavior is concerning. Then if T were to terminate, what then? Then we get upset at T for "abandoning"? As a T recently who was seriously threatened and harmed by a client, I can say I would not engage in this game, its a risk not worth taking. I say this to urge you to say what you mean and mean what you say. Exploring limits is fine, pressing or threatening them in this way is not.
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::shrug:: I am sorry that happened to you, but my T knows that I am not a threat to her and she understands the spirit in which these things were said. I think if you don't understand the way we interact then what I said sounds worse than it really is.
She did however tell me that if I keep trying to get terminated eventually I will succeed, and that I might not actually enjoy the results, so- your warning has been duly noted.