Hi again.

I think your child should be involved in individual therapy, then be part of a counseling program as your wife improves in her treatment.

It's ok to shudder at the thought of a treatment facility, as long as you ACT on trying to get her there...shudder while you're acting...it's ok. Deal with the shudders at night crying, writing in a journal, coming here talking/venting, talking with a therapist/friend/family member...whatever it takes.

Please know that I say this with respect and concern. You can feel everything you're feeling, but you need to act and now is the time to do it. Please don't let this opportunity slip away. It will be the hardest thing you've probably done in your life, but she needs help.

Addiction affects the entire family, not just the person. I hope you all can get into therapy as she's in treatment and begin healing.

Best,

KD