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Aug 19, 2012, 10:06 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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First and foremost, you HAVE FRIENDS at school that you CAN count on. That's important. If you can count on them you CAN TRUST THEM!! So you are NOT friendless. Your mind is telling you lies. Don't believe what your mind is telling you!!!
Your family is a mess -- That is NOT your fault, and it does NOT reflect on you. It has nothing to do with YOU. You cannot change that. But it doesn't make YOU look bad -- it makes THEM look bad. Like I said, it has nothing to do with you. 
I'm SO sorry that friends/family died last year and this year. I know that affects you and hurts you. Can you talk to the counselor at school about this? He/she would be GLAD to talk to you about this and about ANYTHING ELSE that is bothering you. Don't hesitate to go in and talk to the counselor. That's what they're there for.
Are you being bullied at school NOW? If you are, you MUST report it! There are new regulations in effect about bullying in schools, and people can get into trouble for that. Don't let them get away with it! Report it if you're being bullied! Okay???
Ask your parents if you can see a therapist/counselor outside of school. It would be good if you could. I don't know if they can afford it or not, but if they can, ask if you can see one. You're having nightmares and have other things that are bothering you and you should see a counselor. See what they say, ok? If you can't at least talk to the school counselor. And tell your parents that Social Services might be able to help with counseling too. Ask them to look into it, ok? God bless and let us know what happens, will you? Take care. Hugs, Lee 
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