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Old Aug 19, 2012, 11:40 AM
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we only have six sessions together and I don't want to spend them talking about my mother...
But she is the source of your problem.

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I wonder why my mum doesn't realise what she is doing? And why she chooses to be miserable all the time.
She must be blinded by her problems/issues.

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She suggested I write my mother a letter but not send it and we can go through it next week. In the letter I am to write everything I want to say to her but can't.
This sounds like a good idea.

Maybe after a few sessions you will be able to stand up to your mother. It is your inner child that is frightened by her?
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