Hey you are not nagging at all, I'm in a similar cirumstance myself, the thing is your 23 want to be happy, loved, treated and feel secure. Now here's the deal 1, how can you have a future been funded by someone else who won't always be there.. 2, It seems like your fed up and unhappy and 3, if he's not willing to talk and listen why bother? Lifes too short, yes work hard but play hard, cars and holidays stimulate me :-p.

Think about what you want in life and chat with him.

Dan