Since I became depressed, I have been in the process of losing my job. This means that we will have to rely on my wife's single income. We can no longer afford to remain in the house, which is very costly to maintain, even though we are nearing paying off the mortgage. So we are thinking about selling the house and renting an apartment.


To sell the house now means big financial losses, but even worse is the overwhelming feeling to move out of the house. There is so much to clean, to dispose, to package. On top of it, we will have to change the neighborhood and do not know where to settle. Physically, I am also getting very weak because of the chronic insomnia.


So, please, should we move now? What do you think? We have a 8-year old kid and we are really in a survival mode. We are foreigners in this country and have no close friends nearby (probably one reason why I fell into depression).


Thank you very much!