it's hard to be who we want to be, huh? real soul searcher here. i vote for clean break, time out to work on self, new, more appropriate relationship later, when you're grounded.
Hard one. Very hard one. I feel your attachment to him loud and clear..... but, his attachment to you--? You deserve someone who is as committed to you as you are to him. It's worth waiting for the "right one". Don't beat yourself up, get busy biting that cold hard bitter bullet so youcan get on with YOUR life. Hang in there.