Thanks for all your replies

trippin - thanks for your advice - I'm already on folate, iron and a multivitamin
shattered sanity - I change my mind about names most days, today is Hannah or Susannah for a girl and Issac or Joshua for a boy
hamster- I will continue my walks and I'm starting yoga this morning
Blue Poppy- my pdoc has me on meds that are a lower risk for pregnancy - Abilify and tofranil, he has had patients on these before with pregancys and not had a problem.