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Old Aug 19, 2012, 09:54 PM
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Teens were the hardest to mix with as a teen myself, since normal teens are hyperfocused on socializing, and cut back drastically on content. They overdo the socializing stuff to find a balance later in life. Kids are in a way, "more" autistic in their style of communicating.
I always knew, I was different. It wasn't a problem, prior to the age of ten when socializing and status were not important. My eccentricities were tolerated. Children were much more direct, that I don't recall guessing what their intentions might be. I was free to be me.

In adolescence communication became more subtle and indirect. For a lady who does not read nonverbal communication very well, this was very confusing. It made it extremely difficult to relate so I ended up existing on the periphery with no real friends. I lacked all the image, popularity and other superficial qualities that were admired.

I am glad this is over.

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I have realized that sacrificing who you are, really isn't worth it.
I agree with this. It hinders emotional growth.
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