((((Sally)))))),
You are a very strong person. It does sound like T is projecting somthing onto you that isn't yours, unfortunately. You said you might write him, just a thought, maybe giving him another week or so since he is now going through the emails will help him sort it out himself.

I just went through a similar incident with my therapist and we ended up giving up, terminating. Oddly, just like yours, my T turned from being a normal person to a clinical Freudian like therapist. Maybe aliens are swooping down and replacing our therapists? I swear, I just can't/couldn't figure it out and that mad hair-brained explanation sounds like the best one I could come up with, lol.

I hope that your outcome is the one that best suits you, whether it is to stay or go. I wish you the best of luck! Keep us posted.