I don't see it in my own marriage as a "tips for her" or "tips for him", but more like a partnership, my husband and I share the responsibilities, we have been married 28yrs and had gone steady 7yrs before that, so sharing the responsibilities works, and helps strengthen our relationship.
It may not work for all, and that's alright too.
I just wanted to share this, with y'all. We sometimes do role reversal, he likes to cook,grocery shop, where I like the outdoor stuff,grass cutting and shoveling snow, "I" take the trash out,do the bills,etc. Soooooo, co-operation and sharing really is helpful, it's not about sex,bringing slippers,"honey this, honey that", but that is okay too and if it works for many or sort of a thing both partners expect, great.
Real,solid relationships,tips are not needed,after years of being with a mate, you just sort of learn what works for both. Those little extras, flowers,dinners, words of endearment for either him or her are okay, but some couples aren't into that and that's okay too.
All that matters to me in a relationship is true love (not the sexual, called lust),honesty,respect and loyalty.
That's what my husband wants too, soooooooo, we are happy with that, sure we argue, but then that is normal to have some bicker. I have yet to see a long term relationship, that lasts, without arguing.
Those "Barbie and Ken" relationships often end in divorce.
Just my take on relationships and "tips that work or not" and if they are necessary. For some,maybe, but as I stated, sharing responsibilities,respect,come to a point, where no tips are needed or you just learn what he or she likes over time. We love to rub each others feet while watching TV, then our dogs have to jump up and get their pets, ha!ha!

Peace,
DE