Hello Shangrala,
back! I do recall seeing you around not very long ago (in my mind, anyway). I tried hard, but I only made it about 3/4 through your post. Whew! That IS long! I didn't want you to think that no one cares, or that no one is trying to respond. It's just real tough to stay focused throughout. My memory won't allow it.

That's probably why you haven't received any responses yet. Perhaps you can cut this post into two different ones?? Sorry that I can't respond to your Q's though. sent to you and your daughter!