As a single woman, I want to know where I stand. If a guy isn't looking for an exclusive relationship, I want to know. I don't want to be strung along, thinking that we're getting along great, only to find out that he's got half a dozen other women on the line.

I don't want to play second fiddle to a porn fixation. Been there, done that. How humiliating to have a guy finish his "duties" up quickly so he can go stare at a 20-y/o Asian porn star to take care of himself.

Respect for the intimate details of our relationship. I don't want to walk into your office for a lunch date and have a dozen guys leering at me.