Thanks Sweet. We started counseling but it only works if you both want it too and put something into it.
We've been married 2 years and it's been bad since right after the I do's.
I do have serious reservations about giving him another chance and like you said he has had alot already. It's a bit tough because I am from America but am with him in Norway and because of our problems I have not had a chance to make a life for myself here. I have a couple friends but no family to lean on. Living apart right now would be great but it's not an option after this weekend. I have no where to go and no means of supporting myself. (it't tough to get a job until I am fluent in the language).
Right now I am just going to bed and try to forget today. It's been a tough one. It's 11:30pm here.
Nitey nite.
Heidu