farmergirl is spot on. I tell T that I'm worried about saying or asking something that's too personal. She told me I can ask anything that comes to mind, but it's her decision whether or not to answer it. I would not expect her to answer the boyfriend question unless it directly relates to something you're talking about. On the other hand, she probably would answer the on about analyzing people outside of the office. I'm a psychology student and know of many others, and yes I (we) do tend to analyze others not inside the therapy office. It drives my friends and family crazy lol