I'm glad you can be honest with T too! I used to criticize my former T and she didn't like it, especially when I said something about her clothes. I think she took it personally. But it's different with my current T. It feels different to be honest with her. It's a GOOD feeling because she knows I like her anyway, even if I criticize something about her. So I understand how it is with you and your T. We need to be able to tell them what we think, even about their clothes.

Like you, I'm very interested in my T's clothes. For me, it may have to do with wanting her to be like me rather than different from me. That has to do with wanting us to be more connected, but tastes in clothes don't really matter. It's the emotional connection, which takes us back to being glad we can be honest with our Ts! Did this post make any sense at all?