Readystop your post is EXACTLY how I feel.....down to being an expert at meeting others needs and knowing their needs before they do.

Same here Wiki and Stop, I refer to her as little me and most of the time I can contain her and pacify her but occasionally she gets out of hand. T says that's the true me... great, just ****ing great. Fake me has done and continues to do, a pretty good job running the show...then BAM... true me comes outta nowhere? WTH?

We are talking about needs and what mine are and how to have them met in therapy. so you can add NEEDS to the word BOUNDARIES as the most hated 2 words in the english language for me.