The only questions I ask T are to clarify something he's said or to get his thoughts on something I've said. I suppose I could ask him anything, but a) hitting a boundary isn't something I want to do (ok, they terrify me) and b) I'm remarkably uncurious about him.

I figure the biographical stuff isn't particularly useful to me, although I do sometimes wonder if he survived CSA like I did. The important stuff I already know - how he typically reacts to things I've said, his utter lack of judgement of me, his disdain for the people who hurt me, his sense of humor.