Actually my mother is EXTREMELY critical of my hair

She never likes it and never has anything nice to say about it. She offered to pay for me to go to a new stylist, but it HAD to be HER stylist or forget it.
And she was concerned I would embarrass her so she told me to behave (I am freekin ancient aged and have manners directly out of Emily Post). wtf?!

I chose to not go.
(I am sorry you guys...the more I talk about it the more embarrassed I feel that I cared so much and got sooo caught up .... most people would have just walked away a long time ago)
I will TRY really hard to never bring this up again