He is probably very stressed and upset he can't find a job, especially since he is the man and wants to be the one supporting, a lot of us can't find a job or take in the money, there is no stability in this economy. It takes a lot of time, especially coming from culinary school. I agree that he was raised living comfortable and he needs to do his share of chores around the place. He should listen to your concerns and take up any job for now.

I was upset at my bf (now fiance)who lost his job and didn't work for 8 months, it was tough for us too, I wasn't the nicest gf and I've heard his mom got upset too, his sister was very mean to him through these 8 months, called him lazy, mamas boy, couch bum, they threatened to kick him out . Now he has a great , secure job, we're saving up for a house. I just wished I didn't bring it up as much as I did.. it was very hard on him