Maybe CE's T wasn't concerned about the pants comment because she didn't like his pants either, or maybe he's quirky or maybe he was just playing with her and she knew it because she knows him that well. I told my T once "you suck", when I started to cry. He knew what I meant, I didn't think he actually sucked... It was more of a you win comment... I was defeated. I'm glad you can be honest with T, but I would be careful of woman and their clothing choices.