my t self-discloses every now & then, when it relates to whatever we're talking about. i haven't really asked her any questions about herself. I guess that's one good thing about the setup she has there, as in no receptionist - I schedule appointments through her, pay her each week directly, etc. so it's pretty much in my face all the time that she's my t, not my friend, and i'm paying her for a service so I can let the sessions be all about me. (which at first was hard, i wanted to talk about anything else but me, LOL but over the months I've gotten pretty darn good at it, letting that 50 minutes every week be all about me! it's become lovely! not selfish like I at first thought it was.) sorry if i got off track there.