I am a male college student with big puffy long hair and I hate it. I feel my lack of confidence comes from my hatred of how my hair is. In fact I know it, as I'm always wearing a hood to hide it, even when it's hot outside. I feel it's better for men with straighter non-poofy hair as then it's just long hair. With me, it's big hair. Does anyone have any tips for helping me keep my confidence when my hair looks wild and huge? For anyone who has had long hair, you know how hard it is to chop it off. Before I make any huge decisions with this, Is there a way to stop making it so frizzy? I would love to have long hair that lies down and isn't frizzy and puffy. Are there any shampoos that can just kill the frizz and flatten it??