My t only wears black, all year long! She's close to my age, 40's, so I don't have a transference issue about what she wears, but I do wish she would wear another color. It makes me wonder if all of her comfortable clothing is black as well. Black supposedly is a slimming color, but she is already skinny, so I doubt it is for that reason.

As for searching the internet/facebook for information about t, I don't think it is an invasion of privacy to do so. Employers now do searches before hiring employees. I feel I am doing the same because I am paying my t to help me to get help me learn to deal with my bp, and trusting her with information I don't even share with my husband or best friend.

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