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Originally Posted by CantExplain
"In the same sentence" only in the retelling. Half an hour apart in session.
Did you never have a friend so close that she could point out your fashion blunders? Eg. "Those earrings are a mistake" or "You're not going dressed like that"?
It wasn't given or taken as an insult. Everyone's T relationship is different, I guess.
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I don't have a friend, and maybe this is why. Unless I ask for an honest appraisal, I don't want to hear one.
Maybe if we are super close and we have a history of ragging on each other, it's different.
If your therapist had replied to your comment with a negative criticism about your physical appearance, how do you think you'd handle it? Maybe I don't appreciate being able to dish out this type of honesty because I don't like receiving it.