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Originally Posted by autotelica
I don't have a friend, and maybe this is why. Unless I ask for an honest appraisal, I don't want to hear one.
Maybe if we are super close and we have a history of ragging on each other, it's different.
If your therapist had replied to your comment with a negative criticism about your physical appearance, how do you think you'd handle it? Maybe I don't appreciate being able to dish out this type of honesty because I don't like receiving it.
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Wonder what it would be like to be married to a man who every morning said ...I hate what you are wearing. Donīt wear that perfume or thise shoes because I hate them
Every marriage is different yes and so is every T realsionship...I would personally if my selfesteem were not already torn apart..file for a divourse.
If I ask on the other hand I will be more than happy to recieve an honest reply...and do so on a daily basis...