Thanks, Butterflies are free. Sorry for the delay in replying.

It's good to know, in a way, that other people also experience this (I mean, I wish none of us did). The way things are at the moment I can see it being a long slow process.

My T is going well, I guess I'm hoping that as it progresses and the flashbacks reduce this becomes less of an issue. I have managed to discuss this with my T and we are trying to get to the bottom of what this is about.

Would H go to therapy? Yes he would, but that would mean that I'd have to tell him and that an absolute no. I mean, in the future if it's still affecting things between us then I would do some work on it together. I don't know if I would be comfortable with him seeing my T - he knows too much I would be worried about him accidentally saying.

Thanks again for your reply.