Hey boxturtle and Welcome.

I believe you've taken a step in a good direction by posting and voicing some things in your life. I think most people find it relieving to do so-- that is if they can get themselves to even do it.

I guess I'm a rarity (as a female) as I struggle to discuss this %#@& also. (just to let you know I've been dx- with PTSD-complex from childhood, and several other difficulties) I struggle to post here about things that happened, as well as talking in therapy and I will never go to a "support group". I'm not so sure it's as easy as you seem to think it is for all women---- I haven't healed or coped yet. I know a woman that has been forced into the hospital at least 12 times and she is still not healed or coping.

Healing and coping takes much inner work and feeling the pain in an adult mind that can rationalize it all-- IMO. And that takes A LOT of work for either gender. Maybe some men, for whatever reason aren't able to go back down that road again(realizing what happend to them and how, because of it, they may need some help).... just as some women aren't.

Also, my husband is the one in the family on meds-- to help his depression. I don't take anything.

I hope I'm not coming across too strong, I just don't believe in generalizations. I grew up not talking, for various reasons, and pretty much carry on that way still.

I'm so sorry that people throughout your life have misunderstood you-- that is rough. I wish you well in "trying to overcome the trauma and become whole again." I hope you feel comfortable to post what ever is on your mind, there are many helpful and compassionate people here.

All the best to you.