I can relate accept my mother is a drug user not alcoholic.. Shes at her worse as well and has seemed to have given up on ever making it out. Shes even made a will recently. Its to the point where when shes withdrawing she has severe pain along with entire body spasms. It doesnt phase her so it seems. But I refuse to give up on her and your support is the best you can give your mother. Your hope may inspire her. Hope for the best in both our situations.