my ex i was with for 5 years was overweight. significantly apparently. it's weird cause i never thought he was THAT over weight, but turns out he was. his weight did not matter to me, although, however i'm strict about my OWN weight. like it's almost obsessive now... ugh

anywho, off topic. sorry. i honestly think that if your weight/size bothered him, he would've let you know or at least dropped some hints. cause all in all, guys are all simple minded... right?