I started going bald back in my 20's mostly gone on the top now, so I just cut it close. I agree with Unhappyguy that working out can boost self esteem among many other benefits. Appeal is in the attitude, a person who takes care of themselves and is self confident can have a lot of charisma regardless of what is or is not on the roof so to speak. Just think of yourself as a sporty convertable with the top down all the time.