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Originally Posted by newtus
i remember times when i had this friend and i would ask him why people didnt like me and he said basically becuase i was pathetic. he didnt say that but he said i come on stuff like forums and ask people online and because i dont talk...and just other stuff that was really simple and true. but i still dont understand because theres people who do that too out there and they seem to be getting along just fine or ok.
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I'm sorry he said that to you. He doesn't sound like a real friend.
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Originally Posted by newtus
i dont understand why people dont like me.
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Well, I think the thing is that *nobody* is universally liked. You seem to have a worse time than most finding people who are civil to you -- I have no idea why that is. Is it possible for you to write a list of people who have been kind to you in the past? Then you can look at it to remind yourself that you're not universally reviled. I remember you saying something about a coffee shop attendant who remembered you -- can you put him/her first on the list?
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Originally Posted by newtus
i feel like the only way to meet people is do drugs. because ive been able to get along with that type of crowd easier than others even though i hate it the most. and have been F-d over by them the most.
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Well, that's certainly a way to meet doctors and lawyers. :-/
Would you like something like a straight edge crowd, where they have the same kind of rebellious attitude but without the intoxicating substances?