I would go with the female T as the you are too uncomfortable talking to a male T about the mastectomy. But as others have said I would also tell her some of the other issues/topics you have. Perhaps you can process the mastectomy subject with her and move on if she can't help you with your other topics? Big Hugs!!! 
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