..... never thought much about having a choice! Was just assigned a T and both times it worked out well. I like if I relate to them in terms of life interests, like fine cooking, running etc. A sense of humour works really well for me. Exactly how you would figure this out from the first session, I don't know. Most T's don't talk much about their lives initially, it kind comes out over time.

So, I guess go with your gut!