I don't think this is unusual at all Stopdog. I am convinced that there are some things I may truly never remember or remember accurately. I'm trying to just live with that possibility. I have similar "edits" in my mind...there is evidence A, B and D but C seems to be implied by everything else I remember. Was it "just" horrid neglect or was CSA part of it? I don't think I'll know.

Maybe your T is just over-eager to help, a caring and nice gesture but maybe taking it slow is best? I feel ya on this one...not easy to live w/it