You could try to turn it around on them. When they pry, ask a huge job-hunting favor---they just gave you a big speech so they can't refuse right? By favor, I mean like saying "That's great! You work at XYZ, can you put me in touch with someone for an informational interview?" (Info interviews are where you ask about the co and what it is like, even if no openings are posted. This is more common than you think"

People who judge should be put on the spot to help you in a real way. You can ask if they would introduce you to someone at their workplace, or give feedback on your resume. It makes the nosey people accountable if they really care about helping you.

Took me 2 years but I'm finally working again. It is awful out there but taking action is better than nothing.