My sister has a very beautiful home and is very house proud. Somehow she has been able to get her hubby to help with cleaning the house.
He used to be a car sales man and hates a dirty car. So on the weekend he offered to wash her car..... Always likes it clean.
Maybe you can get your hubby to become a used car sales person and catch the cleaning bug. Maybe you could even get the children lined up to do some ages appropriate chores. With a star chart, including your hubby.
Good Luck