This a sore subject with me an my partner. The hardest thing I realized is that it doesn't really take that long once you get going. I put on some music and tell myself to clean up for 3 songs, that's only like 10 minutes. By the time I pour bleach in the toilet, wipe down the sink and do a quick mop the time is up. I do that one room per day. Don't feel pressure to add more time because it's NEVER ALL done. Also, don't feel guilty about not doing enough!