OMFG. That is so gross. I want to take a shower just after reading that.

If you're worried about him calling you, can you call him -- with H sitting next to you to make sure you follow through, if you're like me and tend to cave under pressure to do things you don't even want to do -- to tell him you've found another therapist, and thank him for his time? It's not totally untrue... I mean, you FOUND lots of therapists...

Besides, I'm not sure what his cancellation policy is, as in whether he will charge you for a no-show. Then you'll get charged AND a phone call. Might as well nip it in the bud, when you're ready.

EW.