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Aug 23, 2012, 01:10 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Have you reminded this "very very nice guy" of a husband that HE took part in the making of this child? Does he KNOW that he should take part in the care and feeding of this child? Does he need a frying pain upside his head in order to get it thru to him that you need HELP?? 
Since he can't "fathom" what it's like to be in constant pain, feeling like a zombie, so tired that you could sleep standing up with no problem, that you're a wife, mother, student and worker while he has just ONE job? Have you reminded him that one of your jobs is 24/7 (mom) and there are NO days off? Did you remind him that one job has deadlines and the Prof. won't extend it simply cause you're tired?? One job (wife) includes taking care of husbands needs ( ) which she dutifully fulfills. And HE really wants you to finish your degree so you can WORK???  Well whoop -de-doo. What the HE@#@$ ARE YOU DOING NOW!!! This guy really DOES need a frying pan upside his head!
He must be incredibly dense if he can't understand that you TIRED, word out, in pain, and need HELP. I don't know what's the matter with him, but he needs to start helping you around the house and with the child. There is NO REASON why he cannot.  Either HE step in and help you or YOU hire a nanny. That's what I would do.
God bless and please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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