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What kind of medicines do you take, and how often are you in therapy? If neither of those, tell us at PC why you feel you need help now, please.
This is a support site. I don't mind giving you support as long as you don't jerk my chain. If you come here honestly and do your best to heal, we'll do fine. There are many members here that are very caring, and lying to them would hurt them greatly...also, they give much energy... we don't mind giving attention, but it's good if you can learn to give it back too.

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...in that case I think I'm better off just going - I haven't lied to anybody on here and have never intended to - I came to get help and to break my behaviour cycle and did say in my introduction message if people thought I wasn't welcome then say so!!! - I'm not out to bite anybody or break anybody's chain..... I thought this was a place where EVERYBODY had a problem of some kind - obviously didn't realise I had to fit the criteria..... maybe it should be stated in the rules!
As for GIVING advice/support/attention whatever you wana call it - that was my intention too - just didn't want to appear overpowering as a newcomer - what a bummer of a no win situation.

We all deserve a chance in life - obviously I don't in here though