hey. i think that people do need attention. we are social animals and so on and so forth. needing attention is human. there would be more wrong with you if you didn't need any attention at all.
that being said there are inappropriate and appropriate ways of obtaining attention. therapists can be helpful there (some of them)
do you know what is up with the lying thing? do you have any idea why you do it? do you tend to get caught in them?
i'm wondering whether it is lying that is the problem... or if it is more that you make up stuff in terms of your likes / dislikes / motivations / favourite colours etc etc that kind of thing because... you don't really know who you are.
but maybe i'm missing the point. dunno...
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