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Old Aug 23, 2012, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by lostmyway21 View Post
Na don't get me wrong I love running errands and going to stores with him. It's been the most healing part of my therapy. Getting the safe parental figure I didn't as a kid. I just never understood why I could never bring myself to accept anything from him, and was wondering if anyone would feel the same.
More reason to discuss it with him. If you feel so strongly towards him, why can't you feel safe enough to accept it. I think if I saw my T as a safe parental figure I'd ask for everything my heart desired. But then again I was blessed to have loving parents- no need to see my T as one.

Last edited by anilam; Aug 23, 2012 at 05:09 PM.
Thanks for this!
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