I have not been diagnosed either and discovered BPD back in February, and when I saw the traits, it all clicked. I hope to be officially diagnosed in the near future, but learning about BPD and finding PC has helped a little. At least I'm not completely alone anymore. My abandonment issues are my main problem right now. Finding it very hard to cope. Use PC to learn about BPD about people who have it and to not feel so isolated. You're not alone anymore.