(when my t is in the same country as me, of course...) we go for walks and to get stuff to eat, and she always offers to buy us something,ice cream or sodas or sandwiches or drinks or whatever, and we ALWAYS let her pay.. She makes lots lots,lots more money than us. And plus, sometimes we let her order for us. Cuz she knows what we like to eat/ drink, so we just say "get us something" if shes offering.

We also find that going to the store/ going somewhere to eat/ going on walks has been one of the most healing parts of therapy. One of the most fun and helpful times we ever had was going to buy dog food.