One thing I wondered about as I read your post is whether she's still effectively helping you work through your issues. If you feel she is, then I'd suggest talking about maintaining firmer and more professional boundaries and perhaps focusing more on your issues rather than casual stuff. If she isn't addressing your issues, then I'd take a closer look, perhaps on your own and with your T, to see what can be done to change that (as I imagine you're in therapy to work on your issues) or if a referral may be in order. And welcome to the board